Online Dating Targeted Discounting Strategies

by David Evans on February 10, 2006 · 4 comments

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Nate Elliot at Jupiter Research has come up with an interesting concept for online dating sites called targeted discounting strategies. This is a concept worth serious deliberation and consideration.

Before going into pricing strategies, it’s important to understand that his clever sound bite has a fatal flaw, discounting. Why spend a lot of time trying to figure out discounting strategies when in fact a cost increase could be and effective revenue opportunity?

Some people argue that charging people $50 a month is too much. I say it’s not enough. Yahoo raised their Premium service cost to around $35. Not nearly high enough to justify the word “Premium.

Eharmony got it right, $50 monthly wager that it will marry me off faster than several months at $25 with the “commoners”, sniff. People use price as a filter. That’s why matchmakers charge $5,000.

At Chemistry and Eharmony, the value is not only the enhanced matching algorithm, you’re paying more so you don’t have to spend hours each week looking at profiles. Paying more to do less.

Funny how on Myspace it’s the exact opposite. All people do is look at other people’s profiles. Last week I looked at a friend’s profile, and 30 minutes later I counted I had looked at 100 additional profiles.

Last night I saw a tv show that said 40,000 women are abducted into prostitution each year. Myspace is a prime hunting ground for this sort of thing. That’s not going to happen on Chemistry or Eharmony.

There are no links between profiles on dating sites. However, FastCupid has done a good job creating blogs and groups, I spend more time there now because I’m interacting with others in my zip code. In fact, we’re going out for drinks soon. Low pressure, just a group of singles. Try doing that on most other dating sites.

Chemistry reminds me of the DNA machines on CSI. Swab in mouth, put in reader, out spits a piece of paper showing if two people are connected.

The email I get is pretty much split 50/50, some people love it, others hate it. People are happy with matches, and disappointed because the service is so broken.

Match had a $500 service at one point, I think it lasted about 3 months.

Up-selling existing customers seems like a smart move, it’s all the rage now. What about the new daters? I hear Match will not actively promote the service until Q3. They have to convert as many people over to Chemistry from Match as possible, where the cost per acquisition is as low as Yahoo marketing across their own network. Once the databases are full, the Match marketing jalopy will kick into effect and we’ll be BinderMindingFinder to our hearts content.

Back to targeted discounting strategies. Nice idea, but too complicated for most dating sites. If targeted advertising on dating sites doesn’t even work, how difficult is it to implement different pricing models?

Before we get into that, what could some of these discounts be?

Repeat browsers- been to a dating site’s home page four times without signing up? Read the cookie in their browser and give them the first month for $9.00. It’s better than nothing or losing them to the True Cleavage campaign.

Active user- Someone sends 50 emails a month, 25 flirts, keeps profile updated, new photos all the time. Treat them like a superstar. They do more for your service than you ever will. They are as close as you’ll ever get to loyal members. At least for three months.

Zip code- if a particular zip code didn’t have many people in it, reduce the rate until it fills up, 25% off.

Race/gender/age- too many old ladies, not enough young gay women, 15% off.

End of subscription- 2 weeks until they leave, 20% off. Some sites offer variations on this already. Most notably PerfectMatch. Balancing the strength of the offer without badgering is key.

Zip code jam-packed? Hot revenue zones need their own special incentives. Time to put in your thinking caps.

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Sam Moorcroft, ChristianCafe.comNo Gravatar 02.10.06 at 5:55 pm
Dave, I never ceased to be amazed at all the “new” trendy ways of doing business that get bandied about, e.g. “targeted discounting strategies”. What a bunch of MBAish mumbo-jumbo (I never really fit in when I did my MBA way back - I was too much of a straight-shooter to get caught up in the meaningless-nothing-to-do-with-actually-making-money-slogans). Mind you, most MBA’s are useless as entrepreneurs.

We’ve had 15-20 different pricing schemes set up (all automated) for the longest time, depending on where you are in the cycle. Was it complicated to set-up? That depends - everything is relative. It seemed pretty intuitive to us to do.

Are we just clever geniuses or is everyone else out there missing something? I regularly scratch my head at just how dumb a lot of sites are (small to large, niche to generic), have been, and will no doubt continue to be.

With competition like this…

Jon ManningNo Gravatar 02.10.06 at 7:03 pm
Dave,

Sites such as these should be looking at plain and simple ‘value-based’ pricing strategies.

If you’re ugly, your listing is free. If you’re geogeous, you pay a premium.

A cost-per-click pricing model will easily solve this.

Steven Levitt almost talks about this in his book “Freakonomics”, but I suspect it was a bit to politically incorrect to publish.

Jon

relaxedguyNo Gravatar 02.10.06 at 7:13 pm
That was mean but funny. How about if you can’t spell you get a discount (hint hint). I just finished Freakanomics, good read.
Anita SpoonerNo Gravatar 02.10.06 at 8:58 pm
Oh boy, here’s another time when a bunch of smart people are making this little lady feel like a silly thing. Can I ask you all a question? If you had a sister who was older than you are and almost 40 and was not seeing anyone - what place would you tell her to use? My sister asked me and since then I’ve been looking for a place to tell her to use. She goes out with fellows from time to time, but not ones that she met on the computer. My job was to help find her a place on the computer to find a guy to go out with. It has been sure interesting looking at all of the computer sites and learning about going on dates on the computer but I don’t think I know what place she should go to. You being all smart could maybe help me.

Careingly.

Anita

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