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	<title>Comments on: Free Dating Overtakes Paid Subscriptions, Now What?</title>
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		<title>By: jane</title>
		<link>http://onlinedatingpost.com/archives/2009/09/free-dating-overtakes-paid-subscriptions-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-305481</link>
		<dc:creator>jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 21:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My comment focuses on what the author said about POF and it being a pick up site.  From a woman&#039;s perspective - I agree, but shoot I say it is more like a landfill site of waste.  The majority of men do want to fast talk you...into raw meat, some women allow it.  And thus, the creation of a pick up site ~ POF.   Its members spreads, pun made by me.

naive woman that was on POF for a bit in Canada.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My comment focuses on what the author said about POF and it being a pick up site.  From a woman&#8217;s perspective &#8211; I agree, but shoot I say it is more like a landfill site of waste.  The majority of men do want to fast talk you&#8230;into raw meat, some women allow it.  And thus, the creation of a pick up site ~ POF.   Its members spreads, pun made by me.</p>
<p>naive woman that was on POF for a bit in Canada.</p>
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		<title>By: alinafarace</title>
		<link>http://onlinedatingpost.com/archives/2009/09/free-dating-overtakes-paid-subscriptions-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-303689</link>
		<dc:creator>alinafarace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 12:32:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Internet dating has become widely accepted and this helped to its growth. A thousand of them have been sprung up in the internet after seeing the success of some pioneers in this field. These dating services allow you for a free registration. Registration and subscription is free in the most of these websites. For further information you can use this sites http://www.adultfriendclub.com/blogs/free-and-paid-dating-sites/ </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Internet dating has become widely accepted and this helped to its growth. A thousand of them have been sprung up in the internet after seeing the success of some pioneers in this field. These dating services allow you for a free registration. Registration and subscription is free in the most of these websites. For further information you can use this sites <a href="http://www.adultfriendclub.com/blogs/free-and-paid-dating-sites/" rel="nofollow">http://www.adultfriendclub.com/blogs/free-and-paid-dating-sites/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://onlinedatingpost.com/archives/2009/09/free-dating-overtakes-paid-subscriptions-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-294493</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 18:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in no doubt plentyoffish attracts the numbers. It is after all Free and humans are creatures of habit. We have to find something completely new before we are prepared to move on. Evidence of this is in the introduction of applications by Facebook which blew Myspace away and has lead to many dating successful dating apps being created not least that of Zoosk! I do agree with Dawn&#039;s point, there are better executed FREE dating sites out there such as http://www.freedating4singles.com This site doesn&#039;t rank amongst the movers and shakers as its far too new to do so. However, it provides more features than most paid dating sites and if demand increases it will roll out Live Support early next year solving the Customer Service problem you mentioned. I&#039;m looking forward to watching this one closely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in no doubt plentyoffish attracts the numbers. It is after all Free and humans are creatures of habit. We have to find something completely new before we are prepared to move on. Evidence of this is in the introduction of applications by Facebook which blew Myspace away and has lead to many dating successful dating apps being created not least that of Zoosk! I do agree with Dawn&#8217;s point, there are better executed FREE dating sites out there such as <a href="http://www.freedating4singles.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.freedating4singles.com</a> This site doesn&#8217;t rank amongst the movers and shakers as its far too new to do so. However, it provides more features than most paid dating sites and if demand increases it will roll out Live Support early next year solving the Customer Service problem you mentioned. I&#8217;m looking forward to watching this one closely.</p>
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		<title>By: dawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:09:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In addition to PlentyofFish there&#039;s a new FREE on-line dating site that I think is much better executed called http://Kissburg.Com.  I&#039;ve somewhat given up on on-line dating and moved to singles parties and speed dating events.  I think it&#039;s important to go to events that aren&#039;t just based on age range.  We all have dating deal-breakers and does that not make us shallow, just single New Yorkers that know what we want.  Check out http://SingleAndTheCity.Com and http://OnSpeedDating.Com for singles events based on interest, background and fetish! They have events like &quot;Size Matters&quot; for tall singles, &quot;Date A Democrat&quot;, &quot;Date A Fireman&quot;, &quot;Gentlemen Prefer Blondes&quot; and &quot;Cougar/Boy Toy&quot; Speed Dating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In addition to PlentyofFish there&#8217;s a new FREE on-line dating site that I think is much better executed called <a href="http://Kissburg.Com" rel="nofollow">http://Kissburg.Com</a>.  I&#8217;ve somewhat given up on on-line dating and moved to singles parties and speed dating events.  I think it&#8217;s important to go to events that aren&#8217;t just based on age range.  We all have dating deal-breakers and does that not make us shallow, just single New Yorkers that know what we want.  Check out <a href="http://SingleAndTheCity.Com" rel="nofollow">http://SingleAndTheCity.Com</a> and <a href="http://OnSpeedDating.Com" rel="nofollow">http://OnSpeedDating.Com</a> for singles events based on interest, background and fetish! They have events like &#8220;Size Matters&#8221; for tall singles, &#8220;Date A Democrat&#8221;, &#8220;Date A Fireman&#8221;, &#8220;Gentlemen Prefer Blondes&#8221; and &#8220;Cougar/Boy Toy&#8221; Speed Dating.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew Presley</title>
		<link>http://onlinedatingpost.com/archives/2009/09/free-dating-overtakes-paid-subscriptions-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-280535</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Presley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 17:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Technology became so useful that many internet users learn to utilize them.  There are many ways to avoid online dating scammers.  One is to know the demographic profile of the site.  You can play a journalist by asking yourself the 5W&#039;s and 1H (who, what, when, where, why, and how)in an online date.  you can also use the scientific method and play as a scientist just to probe a suspected scammer.  You can use many ways to point scammers and avoid them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Technology became so useful that many internet users learn to utilize them.  There are many ways to avoid online dating scammers.  One is to know the demographic profile of the site.  You can play a journalist by asking yourself the 5W&#8217;s and 1H (who, what, when, where, why, and how)in an online date.  you can also use the scientific method and play as a scientist just to probe a suspected scammer.  You can use many ways to point scammers and avoid them.</p>
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		<title>By: Top UK Dating Sites (temi)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Top UK Dating Sites (temi)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>giving the current economic climate this can be expected but I think paid dating offers much higher quality than free dating, free dating tends to attract shall we say poor quality membership.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>giving the current economic climate this can be expected but I think paid dating offers much higher quality than free dating, free dating tends to attract shall we say poor quality membership.</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie Davis, eFlirt expert.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie Davis, eFlirt expert.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In response to your last question, &quot;How can we as an industry gauge how good a dating site is when not taking traffic into account as the sole metric by which success is measured?&quot;

I always say that a dating site is only as good as your matches. You should also take your &quot;target dating demographic&quot; into consideration.  The site that you personally are attracted to is not necessarily always the site where your ideal match might be hanging out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In response to your last question, &#8220;How can we as an industry gauge how good a dating site is when not taking traffic into account as the sole metric by which success is measured?&#8221;</p>
<p>I always say that a dating site is only as good as your matches. You should also take your &#8220;target dating demographic&#8221; into consideration.  The site that you personally are attracted to is not necessarily always the site where your ideal match might be hanging out.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 13:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How can we as an industry gauge how good a dating site is?

We probably will never be able to as no one is going to release the stats we will need to find out, like the number of active members (plus the definition of what they perceive as a  active member), unique visitors from target markets, etc..

I realize Markus uses Comscore numbers as a comparison tool and for marketing purposes but I would be curious to find out what his real numbers are, either from his own internal tracking system or Google Analytics. I find numbers from companies like Comscore, are only good enough to give a general indicator of how a site is performing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can we as an industry gauge how good a dating site is?</p>
<p>We probably will never be able to as no one is going to release the stats we will need to find out, like the number of active members (plus the definition of what they perceive as a  active member), unique visitors from target markets, etc..</p>
<p>I realize Markus uses Comscore numbers as a comparison tool and for marketing purposes but I would be curious to find out what his real numbers are, either from his own internal tracking system or Google Analytics. I find numbers from companies like Comscore, are only good enough to give a general indicator of how a site is performing.</p>
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		<title>By: asksexpert</title>
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		<dc:creator>asksexpert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 09:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great job.....

Develop Emotional Intimacy

To develop emotional intimacy is a tall order. Is  it something that  you pick up from that old issue of RD lying around in your doctorâ€™s waiting room?  Is emotional intimacy  something that you can switch on and off?
â€¢ Emotional intimacy comes from within.
â€¢ To develop emotional intimacy  you need to be impeccable  with your word.
â€¢ You need to be a person who is control of his or her emotions.

For more information visit: http://asksexpert.com/blog/?cat=17</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great job&#8230;..</p>
<p>Develop Emotional Intimacy</p>
<p>To develop emotional intimacy is a tall order. Is  it something that  you pick up from that old issue of RD lying around in your doctorâ€™s waiting room?  Is emotional intimacy  something that you can switch on and off?<br />
â€¢ Emotional intimacy comes from within.<br />
â€¢ To develop emotional intimacy  you need to be impeccable  with your word.<br />
â€¢ You need to be a person who is control of his or her emotions.</p>
<p>For more information visit: <a href="http://asksexpert.com/blog/?cat=17" rel="nofollow">http://asksexpert.com/blog/?cat=17</a></p>
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		<title>By: Matthias Galica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthias Galica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 21:30:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very well written.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well written.</p>
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