Comments on: Should You Lie About Your Age

By: jack lpt

jack lpt — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:06:02 +0000

I kind of agree with Gabriel-g. I hate to say this but I’ve learned from experience that lying is NOT always the best policy. Some people are just placed in certain circumstances where lying would be the easiest thing to do. You cant really compare a 40 year old married man with a kid to a 40 year old single man whose never really dated. And I can honestly say looking back on my life their are time’s that i wish I had lied. I have a lot of regrets towards a few time’s that I was honest about certain things.

By: David Evans

David Evans — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:39:45 +0000

Clearly list your questions in a way I can understand and I’ll respond. I won’t respond to unintelligible rants.

By: gabriel_g

gabriel_g — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:55:16 +0000

David, wow I’m like really ‘scared’! unlike you I’ve become fearless and very self aware and hate hypocrites, and now you’re implicitly trying to threaten me from showing a different opinion from your ‘sheeple’ opinion..Seems i hit a raw nerve when i said you are a fantasist and ego-dreamer…ahhhh…diddums…
Whats really crazy is your lack of compassion and capacity to see an other view, YOU are nuts and your fantasy of politically correct (yawn) dating site WONT EVER WORK..
ps despite your absolute failure to answer any of my points, it’s still clear to me from your responses that for you “failure is not an option….no it’s a lifestyle!!”

By: David Evans

David Evans — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 13:24:27 +0000

Hey gabriel let’s turn down the crazy a bit, ok? You’re one comment from being banned.

By: gabriel_g

gabriel_g — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 10:09:58 +0000

Mark Brooks, your ‘forgiveness’ of me rings with patronising nastiness you absolute wanker (if you felt that you wouldn’t have to state it cunt), i’ll give you non-aggression you lowly worm! And your ‘understanding’ of everything is SHALLOW, SHALLOW, SHALLOW! You just pretend you’re perfect on the surface but just like priests and the like who also assume such a high ground repressing your TRUE NATURE results in extreme outbursts, eg reckon your’e actually a MURDERER or a RAPIST or terrorist or somesuch, like a pressure cooker human nature will explode if forced to be ‘perfect’.. You also don’t know the full story of Ghandi’s life, as i said he actually slept around and had no respect for the women in his life hmmmm. Don’t tell me you neglected to mention you MODEL YOURSELF ON THAT PART SECRETLY TOO OF HIS LIFE?? Go read a book properly and stop being the most shallow imbecile i’ve ever encountered, moralising ego-centric turd that you are…Clearly for you ‘failure is not an option…no it’s a lifestyle!” ha ha ha

By: gabriel_g

gabriel_g — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 10:01:39 +0000

You patronising piece of scum Mark Brooks, and i’m not suprised you’re not Buddhist – as Buddhists have as a core tenet COMPASSION and not JUDGING others…In the manner that YOU judge others and show little compassion to myself you ARE ACTUALLY COMMITTING IMPLICIT ‘VIOLENCE’..In law for example there are crimes of ‘OMISSION’ not just ‘commission’ and i’d say you’re LACK OF COMPASSION is a crime of omission of humanity and therefore actually not just patronising, ultimately false and ‘ego’ driven DELUSION but in fact a ‘violence’ against me as a person, i find your attitude cruel, judgemental and callous..So you can fuck yourself, you patronising moron, with your assumed moral high ground when we all know that all you’re doing is repressing your ‘open’ expression’ of anger etc..YOU’RE NOT JUST A MORONIC CLIT-DICKED TWAT YOU DISGUST ME WITH YOUR SUPERIORITY COMPLEX AND SHALLOW PRETENCE THAT YOU’RE ‘BEYOND’ HUMAN..You aren’t a God but fake, imbecilic sham of a ‘man’..if you can call you that, i doubt it..So shove your ‘non-violence’ up your ass, ps Ghandi was a HYPOCRITE, HE SLEPT AROUND AND HAD LITTLE RESPECT FOR WOMEN..fool!!

By: Mark Brooks

Mark Brooks — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 03:20:48 +0000

Gabriel. I’m not buddhist, btw. Nor Christian.

Once again, I forgive you. ;-)

I hope you find what you’re looking for.

By: Ross Felix

Ross Felix — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 01:49:53 +0000

Gabriel,

I wrote a much longer email in an attempt to assist you with your issue. I believe that both Mark and I have made some concrete suggestions that could potentially help you. Online dating isn’t for everyone, and perhaps with your specific needs, perhaps meeting someone in person would have better results for you.

All of that said, for my site, we are focused on honesty. It’s something that I’ve promised my members, and it’s a promise that I intend to do my best to keep.

Best of luck to you in your search for whatever it is you’re searching for.

By: gabriel_g

gabriel_g — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 00:25:02 +0000

at a shallow level Buddhism is worshipping of the Buddha and practices of abstinence, on a deeper level Buddhism is about adapting to the ever changing and infinitely fluid nature of reality and having faith that men are at heart in the main good…you have no faith in me but I have suffered more than you will ever do so, and thus i have more compassion than you could ever know..for all your pretensions to buddhism you have the rigid approach of moralising of Christianity.. You are very limited by your narrow/conventional prism of experience and cant’ cut me some slack because of your ignorance of my experience/dilemma…
A buddhist story, called ‘the two frogs’:

Two frogs lived at a pond all their lives and all they ever knew were the carp in the pond, and the only danger they ever knew was a pike fish who lived there too, and a pelican who lived near by. One day one of the frogs got lost and found himself at the Ocean!! He couldn’t believe what he saw, giant whales, terrifying and huge sharks, an ocean millions of times, maybye more, bigger than the pond..FInally after many days he found his way back to the pond and told his friend all that he had seen, and his friend from ego pretended and felt’ he understood..But he DIDN’T! When a whale was described all he could see in his minds eye was the carp in the pond, when a shark was described he could only relate it to the image/size of the pike, when he was told of the vastness of the oceans he said “oh i can imagine that, it’s easy!” but his ego hid the fact he could still only see the pond in his minds eye. But one day he too lost his way and found himself at the ocean, and then he really experienced and UNDERSTOOD what these things were…and he was forever HUMBLED”.
How about showing a little humility rather than shallow robotic copying of what you misunderstand Buddhism really is from your limited Western Mind?

By: gabriel_g

gabriel_g — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 00:10:45 +0000

and one last thing Mark Brooks, i know buddhists who ‘abstain’ from violence and so forth yet they, like you, seem to be living in a fantasy world where they IGNORE THEIR IMPERFECTIONS, to quote a Zen Buddhist proverb: “the essence of Zen has nothing to do with morality, a man may sleep with his neighbours wife, steal his neighbours oxen and still practice Zen..Zen is in fact a way of relating to reality and accepting what is, including the dark side of human nature, whilst knowing that man is fundamentally good”..
One lie does NOT A BAD MAN MAKE, “ONE SWALLOW DOES NOT MAKE A SUMMER”, you’re methods of talking back to me are false and idiotic and have actually given me the courage to lie on these sites as your arguments have confirmed you are fantasists and ABOVE ALL THE BIGGEST LIARS! PS mark Brooks, you are just robotically and falsely trying to follow what you conceive of as Buddhism, something I understand at a deeper level than yourself:
“when you meet the Buddha on the road you must kill him”..= worshipping the Buddha as an icon or any of Buddhisms practices as ‘set in stone’ for all situations/realities is both unrealistic and not Buddhism..thicko