Happy Birthday to Me

by David Evans on October 21, 2008 in Marketing

okcupidbirthday.jpgToday I turn 40. I woke up, ran 6 miles and spent the morning fielding phone calls from friends, family and clients, not to mention my Facebook wall is on fire. I spent the last night of my 30′s on a fantastic date and am having a small dinner with a few close friends tonight. In a few weeks I’m throwing a larger bash where I can invite a ton of people, too much going on right now to deal with that.

Over the years I’ve belonged to 50+ dating sites. The only one that wished me a happy birthday this year was OkCupid. How every large dating site in the world could miss an opportunity to (re)connect with a member on such an important day boggles my mind. Dating site marketing people, wake up!

    No related posts.

    { 6 comments… read them below or add one }

    James Houran October 21, 2008 at 8:47 pm

    Happy Birthday, Dave!

    All the best,

    James Houran, Ph.D.
    http://www.OnlineDatingMagazine.com

    Reply

    David Evans October 22, 2008 at 9:09 am

    Thank you James.

    Reply

    Jon Cousins October 22, 2008 at 2:32 pm

    Life begins Dave…

    Happy Birthday and kind regards

    Jon

    Reply

    Sam Moorcroft October 22, 2008 at 8:01 pm

    Happy Birthday, Dave! I am 2.5 years ahead of you.

    Sam
    P.S. We would have wished you a happy b-day – we do it every day to 100′s of members. You can even sort by b-days.

    Reply

    celebmingle November 13, 2008 at 11:03 pm

    really? nice site, but if you are interested in dating a wealthy man or beautiful women,please join my millionaireloves.com

    Reply

    Free Online Dating & Chat January 28, 2009 at 7:17 pm

    You are so right Dave, It seems that webmasters are so busy with SEO these days, they tend to neglect the most important asset they have… Thier Members ! something as simple as a Happy Birthday e-mail is an awsome oppurtunitty to connect with your members, make them feel good and keep them coming back to your site. And hopefully bring some freinds. I have 2 great sites one focusing on Free Online Dating and Chat and the other focusing on Southern Singles And I would never pass up such an opputunitty. Infact I have installed a little script to not only send an email, but feature the member on the homepage, with a link for other members to send a happy birthday message. the member loves it, and it’s a great ice breaker !

    Reply

    Leave a Comment

    Previous post:

    Next post: