Comments on: Engage.com Launches new dating site

By: just a guy

just a guy — Tue, 12 Jul 2005 23:32:04 +0000

no the matchmaker doesn’t match up random photos/folks. a matchmaker matches up two from a list of folks he/she knows and wants to match up, typically friends or friend-of-a-friend

By: lg1964

lg1964 — Tue, 12 Jul 2005 13:12:00 +0000

So exactly how is this site supposed to help a “matchmaker” fix up two people? There is no better information to go on than a traditional venue such as match.com. There are the same old tired questions. The only thing I like about this is you can make feedback to members – I think that may be the most innovative concept. The match-me-up concept is really questionable — all you’d be matching on is a picture and that’s wholy unreliable online.

By: ajay

ajay — Sat, 09 Jul 2005 02:24:49 +0000

hmmmm.. I wonder if we are going the whole circle – back to where we started.. way back when the barber was the yenta [ jewish for matchmaker] centuries ago. somewhat tangential – some may call – lateral thought – cant help but say that this social networking thing is all sounding like Indian arranged marraiges – with a difference – brought to a browser near you – courtsey TCP/IP

ajay

By: Stephen Sclafani

Stephen Sclafani — Fri, 08 Jul 2005 01:09:54 +0000

Engage is very similar to LoveHappens.com, which was formerly Tickle Matchmaking. I don’t know when Tickle relaunched as lovehappens, but anyone with a Tickle Matchmaking account now has a Lovehappens account.

By: Fernando Ardenghi.

Fernando Ardenghi. — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:58:39 +0000

Dear Mr. Evans:

As you said “share your initial reaction here”

The comment was my initial reaction.

You also said “Would you say that the Amazon recommendation engine is not useful because your results are based on the likes and dislikes of other people? Or do you consider the dating space differently?”

I personally consider the dating space differently.
It is good to not mistake:
books, cars, songs, films, things, gadgets recommendation lists
from
persons with high degree to be compatible to others.

With books, cars, songs, films, things, gadgets One can choose-use-and-discard-as-much-as-it-is-wanted.
or One can say:
“Please, give me a cars/houses/books/films/songs brochure, I want to see recommended ones”

With persons: Dating / Matchmaking / Feelings Involved is very different; it is not a “meat marketÃ¢â‚¬Â?

LetÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s wait and see!!

Regards,

Fernando Ardenghi.
Buenos Aires.
Argentina.
ardenghifer@gmail.com

By: Dave Evans

Dave Evans — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:30:46 +0000

Fernando, I am surprised to hear you say that friends and family have no place in helping people find a date. Is that a personal view, a social norm or something else?

Where is it written that singles need professionals to help them find their mates? I’ve never read that is a requirement to dating success except from sites that use scientific matchingmaking as a major marketing point.

Engage, like Consumating.com and Tribe.net, is innovating at a time when most introduction sites are laser-focused on the bottom line and have no desire or resources to “push the envelope” as membership numbers contract at many sites.

I for one welcome sites that takes a chance to apply reputation management, especially when it comes to the matchmaking process instead of relying on third party rate-a-date sites.

Some services are more valuable when tightly integrated, like rating people. Others, like photos or profile enhancement, are better left to partners.

Would you say that the Amazon recommendation engine is not useful because your results are based on the likes and dislikes of other people? Or do you consider the dating space differently?

Whether not not the site is successful, watching how consumer react to a new model where the introduction process is distributed across social networks, from 2 degrees to infinite, will be interesting to watch.

By: Bill

Bill — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:17:51 +0000

Dave is it pretty similar to the old Webwoo? Here’s a look at them from ’03: (Takes a while to load)

http://web.archive.org/web/20030202132452/http://www.webwoo.com/

By: Dave Evans

Dave Evans — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:12:41 +0000

Short answer is yes they are funded to get to critical mass.

By: Bill

Bill — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:09:32 +0000

Are they well funded to gain critical mass? If they start paying $20 an acquisition like True.com did, be sure to give them our name Dave.

By: Fernando Ardenghi

Fernando Ardenghi — Thu, 07 Jul 2005 22:07:40 +0000

Dear Mr. Evans:

In my own opinion, I do not think that persons want their friends / mums / parents / neighbours / relatives to be involved in a private matter as building a personal relationship with future in mind.

A single who wants a “compatible real quality contact” needs professionalism / scientific matching techniques and allowing friends / mums / parents / neighbours / relatives to be involved will add “interested third parties” in a process that only concerns TWO PERSONS.

Regards,

Fernando Ardenghi.
Buenos Aires.
Argentina.
ardenghifer@gmail.com